Posted by Danette Hibberd

Last week I brought you a message from Lynn Pierce, the Success Architect on

4 Core Blueprints to Reclaim your Life, Awaken Your Soul and Your Business.

Lynn talked about the quick fix people are looking for as opposed to taking responsibility for creating your life.

I love the way Lynn clearly shows us how we can really begin to discover our Life’s Purpose and urges us to begin taking action today reclaim our life and live our life’s purpose.

In part 1 of this series we talked about the quick fix people are looking for as opposed to taking responsibility for creating your life.

And Lynn asked you…

So where do you start if you are ready to take responsibility for your life and create your future?

This week -

Introspection and Discovery of Purpose

There are 4 core areas, or what I call core blueprints, that require your attention if you want to have a life that is in flow with your true passion and purpose. When you’ve created all 4 of your blueprints and you have all 4 of these areas functioning at a level that satisfies you, then your life will be more peaceful and effortless than you have ever imagined it could really be…

No magic bullet required!

In the next 4 weeks we will discuss each of these areas:

*Introspection and Discovery of Purpose
*Blueprinting the Life of Your Dreams
*Sales/Marketing/Communication Skills
*Mentoring for Your Life and Your Business

First I’d like to have you go back and look at how you reacted to the assignment I gave you at the end of part 1. You remember, the four lines I asked you to read out loud and then look at what your reaction told you about yourself.

I’m making the assumption that you’ve at least taken one simple action towards creating your life by doing this. So how did that go for you?

What came up?

Your body reacts to your thoughts and feelings, situations real or imagined,all the time but most of the time we aren’t aware of it, or you’ll look for a pill or a drink to cover the reaction.

Why do you think people refer to your ‘gut’ reaction?

When your stomach gets butterflies or starts swirling do you reach for an antacid or do you go inside and ask yourself what’s really happening here?

Because now, in part two of this series, we’re talking about Introspection and Discovering Your Purpose.

Introspection does not require hours of meditation or trekking to Tibet. You can start very simply by just listening to what your body is telling you.

For example:
When you notice your body having a reaction, take a minute and see what was just happening that you are reacting to. Was it a phone call, an email, a conversation, or seeing something you don’t want to do coming up next on your calendar?

Or was it a daydream, a thought of fear or doubt that isn’t even real?

First you have to know what is driving your life now before you can make a shift that will move you in the direction you want to go. Why randomly make changes in your life if you don’t know where you’re actually at or what your truly want?

It’s like shooting arrows at a target while someone is spinning you around instead of planting your body, taking a proper stance and aiming at your target. That would be silly, wouldn’t it? And yet you’re basically doing the same thing every day if you haven’t created your first blueprint of Introspection and Discovery of Purpose.

So how do you get started figuring out what your purpose is?

These are criteria that I use to qualify every opportunity that comes up in my life. I believe they will serve you as well as they have served my clients in the last several years.

7 Criteria for Recognizing Your Passion and Purpose

1. Doing it makes you feel good about yourself
2. You would do it for free
3. You loose all track of time when you do it
4. You love to talk about it to everyone
5. You are happy to teach others
6. If this were how you spent all your time, it would be a good thing.
7. It makes you want to get out of bed in the morning

If you are truly living your purpose and doing what you are meant to do in this life, you will easily be able to say yes to all 7 of these criteria. And just as importantly, you will be able to confidently say no to any opportunity that doesn’t rate a resounding yes. And I mean all 7, every time.

If you say yes to 6, but 1 of these criteria is a no or a maybe for you, then say no to whatever it is. It’s not worth your time and effort to do anything that isn’t a perfect fit for you. You don’t want to be coming from a place of lack and grabbing on to something that isn’t meant for you.

I can hear all the “yes, but..” now. It doesn’t matter how good the opportunity would make you look or how much money it could bring or what your friends will say if you don’t do it. Just say no. Your life will start working on such a higher level as soon as you really embrace this concept of saying no to the good to say yes to the great.

That’s the first step to creating your life and creating the first blueprint.

You must have a place that you confidently stand in your life. Your own personal line in the sand. And only you know what that is. I can’t give it to you and neither can anyone else.

Another good tool I would suggest you use is creating your own personal manifesto. If you haven’t done that, you can go to http://LynnPierce.com and sign up for this ezine, and you’ll get an email with a special report on how to create your personal manifesto as my gift to you. I take you step by step
through how to create it and how to use it. It’s a powerful tool.

To be living your blueprint of introspection and purpose you have to be in a place of abundance in terms of confidently saying no to an opportunity that may be a good one to have the space available in your life to welcome a great one.

Does that make sense?

Too often whether it’s a relationship, a job, or a dream; you’re limiting your own ability to live your purpose by fearfully holding on to things in your life that, upon introspection, you would realize are not serving you at the highest level.

The law of attraction is not the only Universal law. One that has always been a very important one in my life is the law of creating a vacuum. Nothing new and great can come into your life unless a space has been created for it to occupy.

If all the available space in your life is filled with things that are less than perfect for you, there is no room for anything better to show up.

So you can use the law of attraction and sit and wait, or you can beg and plead, or you can stand on your head, but you will not get your desired end result.

Until you let go and know that the Universe will bring into your life exactly what you need to fulfill your purpose, you’ll have no space available for it come into your life.

Have you ever been in a bad relationship and wished for a better person to come into your life, but you wouldn’t break up with the first person because you were afraid you’d be alone?

How did that work out for you? Eventually, if you suffer enough and the pain becomes great enough you’ll make the leap and leave. Then, lo and behold, someone else shows up.

That’s the way it works in every area of your life. You can always take the slow and painful route and wait to be so miserable that you make a change out of desperation or you can choose now to actively listen to your body when you have a ‘gut reaction’ and begin to create blueprint #1: Introspection and Discovery of Purpose using the tools you’ve learned here.

Next week we’ll move on to my favorite part, Blueprinting the Life of Your Dreams.

So get to work right now on discovering your purpose and creating your personal manifesto so you’ll be standing in a place of knowing who you are, where you’re starting from and where you want to go so we can begin to create that life for you next week!

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Lynn Pierce, the Success Architect, has taught people how to combine business and personal development to reach the pinnacle of success and live the life of their dreams for over 25 years.
Lynn Pierce, The Success Architect
Author, “Breakthrough to Success; 19 Keys to Mastering Every
Area of Your Life”
www.YourBreakthroughToSuccess.com

I trust you are enjoying learning the 4 Core Blueprints to Reclaim your Life, Awaken Your Soul and Your Business. Keep an eye out for next weeks issue.

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Knowledge is fabulous, but ACTION is a ‘must’

By Danette Hibberd

“Even if you are on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there”
-Robert Kiyosaki

How does this statement resonate with you?

For me, I would like to share my thoughts.

We can spend thousands of dollars improving ourselves, attending seminars, reading self help or personal development books, listening to cd’s, watching dvd’s, doing courses, buying e-books, and so much more. The list and the dollars spent can seem endless. And after all, we sometimes feel, “where is all this getting me, or why aren’t I moving forward, or this is a load of rubbish as I am not living the dream life I want?”

Does any of this sound familiar to you?

Well, I would like to emphasise that education is so very, very important if we want to achieve success. I don’t mean university degrees or education at tertiary levels, but education that expands our knowledge of life and the business niche we choose to be in.

Let’s take a look at the Three Keys to Success

1. Opportunity
2. Knowledge
3. Taking Action

Most of us can see an opportunity when it presents itself to us, and the majority of us have taken the time and expense to improve our knowledge, but sadly many people miss the mark on number 3 - Taking Action.

People have received some great advice from watching the movie “The Secret” - mainly putting out your intention or having the thoughts that we hope will lead us to success. But where most of us miss the mark is putting off taking the necessary action.

Putting out our dreams and desires to the universe - doesn’t necessarily bring those things to us automatically. It’s not something that is just a given.

Instead, there is a level of action that we must take in order to bring those things to us. Yes, there is some work involved.

Finding the knowledge that will take you to the next level is one thing, but putting that knowledge into action is paramount.

How many of you reading this article have spent money on seminars, tools, resources - to further your education and knowledge to improve your life or your business?

That’s great, but are you taking the Action that goes along with the education? It is this step that will really make a difference.

Here at FabulousBeyondFortyClub, we provide you with so much education and knowledge from people who have been there and done it. We gladly share our successes with you and support you but it is up to you to take the necessary Action. You can’t just sit back and expect things to fall in your lap.

Take the knowledge, apply it every day to help yourself move forward.
Response will come to you in amazing ways.

So, my challenge to you is this -

Write down three goals that you wish to achieve before you go to bed tonight. Yes, they may be small, but things that you have perhaps been procrastinating about, or putting off for one reason or other.

Done that? Great - now - begin taking ACTION on making these three things happen for you. I promise you will feel so much better as you have made progress.

Well done.

Take the necessary ACTION to create the life you love - the life you deserve.

Remember,

Knowledge is fabulous, but ACTION is a ‘MUST’.

By Danette Hibberd

Reclaim Your Life and Your Business.

Todays message of the
“4 Core Blueprints to Reclaim your Life, Awaken Your Soul and Your Business” come from Lynn Pierce, the Success Architect. Lynn combines business and personal development to reach the pinnacle of success and life the life of your dreams.

Fabulous Beyond Forty has the same core values and our mission is to give you the information, tools and resources to create and life the life you desire - the life you deserve.

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This has been going on forever, since advertising began, but I swear it’s getting worse. Everywhere I look I see people advertising quick fixes for almost anything you need, business or personal.

For instance, I’m shocked at the list of horrible side effects people are willing to endure to get a quick fix for one thing or another from a pill they can pop instead of changing a habit.

The simple fact is there is no magic bullet, but there are some core principlesthat if implemented fully into your life will make you feel like you do have that magic bullet.

It’s become a part of our society to treat the symptoms and never even take the time to uncover the cause, much less take responsibility for it or do anything constructive to change it.

In a real sense it’s true of weight problems, health issues, issues in personal relationships, addictions, money issues, lifestyle issues and certainly with business.

In business the quick fix is king. Why do you think the get rich quick pitch is perennially one of the biggest money makers for marketers, followed closely by the next tricked out tool that will, of course, make you rich right now?

I’m sure if you’ve been in business for any length of time you’ve heard someone say, “Sell them what they want, not what they need.”

Even seemingly intelligent people who know the quick fix isn’t going to happen will still buy it just in case this one is the real deal. I know I’ve done it. It’s human nature to not want to miss out on the next big thing.

But when you look inside yourself and take a deep breath and get centered and listen to your inner voice, you know none of it is true. The truth is, it all begins and ends with you.

So where do you start if you are ready to take responsibility for your life and create your future?

There are 4 core areas, or what I call core blueprints, that require your attention if you want to have a life that is in flow with your true passion and purpose. When you’ve created all 4 of your blueprints and you have all 4 of these areas functioning at a level that satisfies you, then your life will be more peaceful and effortless than you have ever imagined it could really be…

No magic bullet required!

In the next 4 weeks we will go in depth on each of these areas:

*Introspection and Discovery of Purpose
*Blueprinting the Life of Your Dreams
*Sales/Marketing/Communication Skills
*Mentoring for Your Life and Your Business

Right now I’d like you to read each one of those 4 lines out loud and notice the feeling in your body when you say the words.

Do you tense up?
Does your stomach tighten?
Do your shoulders drop?
Do you take a relaxed breath?

How does your body instinctively react to the words when you read them out loud? And yes, it does make a difference to say it out loud.

What thoughts pop into your mind?
What kind of pictures show up in your head?

These are all indications of where you instinctively feel good about where you’re at and where you know you need some help. If you pay close attention to your reaction you’ll also feel how much resistance you have to doing anything about your current situation in respect to that area of your life.

Isn’t it amazing how much information you can find out about yourself from verbalizing and then just being aware of your reaction?

Listen to what you really need and move toward those things first.

Next week we’ll go into Introspection and Discover of Purpose.

Until then, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Just comment on this post on my blog.

If you would like personal mentoring, send me an email detailing what you would like help with. As your mentor I hold a bigger vision for you than you hold for yourself. When you have faith and a team that believes in you,it gives you courage. When you don’t have to do it all yourself, all things are possible for you. Commit today to go for your dream 100%.

Lynn Pierce, the Success Architect, has taught people how to combine business and personal development to reach the pinnacle of success and live the life of their dreams for over 25 years. In addition, she is also the founder of one of the most exciting annual events for women entrepreneurs,
“Women’s Business Empowerment Summit”. Now she shares her keys to success and life mastery with you. You can get the first five lessons of “Change One Thing, Change Your Life: A Personal Transformation System”
at http://www.yourbreakthroughtosuccess.com

Fabulous Beyond Forty Club will bring you the next issue to keep you up to date with Lynn’s amazing success in “Reclaim Your Life” and live the life you love.

Posted by Danette Hibberd

By Danette Hibberd

Can you cross the “Success Line”?

We often hear people strive for success but don’t quite make it. They give up before they reach their goal.

Take a piece of paper and draw a line down the centre of the page and call the line “Success”. We know that about 90% of people today are on the left hand side of the line. These people often stop about a centimetre or two before reaching the line because they either can’t stretch themselves to get out of their comfort zone, or simply quit. How sad this is.

For those of you who have read “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill, let me remind you of the story of Mr Darby. He was a part of the gold rush fever and one day discovered the shining ore. He borrowed money from relatives and friends, bought the necessary machinery to bring the ore to the surface, but after only digging up 3 car loads of the ore, the mine went ‘dry’. HE QUIT. He sold his machinery to a junk man for a couple of hundred dollars and took many years to pay back his loans.

The junk man however was smart. He called in a mining engineer and returned to the site to have it checked out. The engineer advised that Mr Darby had not been familiar with the fault lines of ore, and he reckoned that the gold would only be three feet from where the digging had been halted.

And you know what? That is exactly where the gold was found. JUST THREE FEET from where Mr Darby had stopped digging.

The junk man took in millions of dollars of ore from that mine - simply because he sought expert counsel.

This story gives us not one, but two lessons to enable us to cross the success line.

1. Think long and hard - failure is only temporary - DON’T QUIT
2. Seek advice from an expert - there is always someone who knows more than you

I hope many of you have the courage not to quit, and the humbleness of seeking advice when you get stuck.

We all want to cross our “Success Line” so always remember how Mr Darby QUIT unnecessarily.

By Danette Hibberd